Bailey’s Palomar Resort
P.O. Box 87, Palomar Mountain, CA 92060
Phone: 760-742-1859
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Modern Day
Pioneer Women
of Palomar
Mountain
In Honor of Woman's
History Month
by Terri Rubio Bailey
Palomar Mountain in Southern
California has a rich pioneer
past, and in every aspect
women were active
participants. I am blessed to
have a place within a
remarkable group of pioneer
women here on the Mountain.
Like me, each in turn had married into this pioneering family, and
each uniquely shaped the world here, always leaving it a bit better
place for their efforts.
The first Mrs. Bailey was born Mary Tribue around 1834. Shortly after
the Civil War she traveled west from Kentucky, with her husband
Theodore Bailey, to start a new life. As an early settler on Palomar
Mountain, Mary was wife, mother, nurse, homemaker and the fiber that
held her family of six children together. Her youngest son came to rise
above his pioneer roots, earning his DDS from USC (class of 1913),
which helped him attract the second Mrs. Bailey in our story.
Adalind Shawl (pictured), the upper-middle-class Iowa daughter of a
Civil War hero, also had come west with her family in the 1890s, but by
first class train ticket. Selecting teaching, over nursing, she received a
graduate degree in what today would be termed “Special Education.”
The romance of the times must have been a factor in accepting the
proposal of Dr. Milton Bailey, now proprietor of Palomar Resort. Later
writing that “to marry Milton Bailey was to marry a hotel!” she
nonetheless embraced her new Mountain life.
The third Mrs. Bailey in our lineage was a strong, self reliant Midwestern
gal who traveled west from Nebraska early during the Second World
War. The daughter of a destitute Bohemian orphan and a traveling
salesman, Doris Price was the product of the settled and hardworking
Midwest. After the war she married a newly returned veteran of the
Pacific Theater - the youngest son of Adalind and Dr. Bailey. Doris' life
revolved around the Mountain for five decades.
I'm the fourth in the line of Mrs. Bailey's here on the Mountain, and have
called Palomar my home for twenty-five years now. As a teacher I
embraced outdoor education here and found that, you don't choose the
Mountain, in fact it chooses you. I joined the amazing group of women
when I married Doris' son, and now proudly carry on the tradition
passed on by those who came before me.
In looking at the life and times of these women, I find a century later that
we have a lot in common. Many thanks to all those women who blazed
the trail me. From them I learned that I have a right to be myself and a
pleasant duty to make the world around me a bit better everyday. I'm
sure they would approve.